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29 September 1970

Camping as a child

Memories don't come better than our annual "boys only" camping trips to Uilenskraal just outside Hermanus.  Grandpa, Dad and I would drive out there in Dad's orange variant.  We always camped in exactly the same spot under an old tree.  We'd always erect two tents - a big orange one for dad and Grandpa to sleep in with large wooden pegs that would require a heavy rubber hammer to drive into the ground.  My tent was considerably smaller and easier to erect.

After the tents where up, we'd set up the old camp table and chairs.  The we'd go for a walk along the beautiful lagoon.  At night, dad and I would often go for a stroll in the adjacent camp site were there were hundreds of dilapidated caravans.  It was quite spooky at night but I always felt perfectly safe because I was with dad and it was at times like this that I'd feel such love for him that my eyes would literally well up.  Then on the way home, we'd stop off at the little camp shop and get mint chocolates.

Breakfasts were always a veritable feast.  All three of us were big eaters and we'd create a huge fry up using an ancient iron frying pan - egg and lots of bacon and banana and bread and tomatoes and more would all go into the pan and the gorgeous smell would create much anticipation for what was to come.

Mum found a pile of old letters that I wrote to Gran and Gramps when I was a child.  Amongst them is a drawing (see photo below) of all the elements I've mentioned - the old tree, the Variant, the orange tent, my small tent and the camp table.  This drawing is now a treasured possession.  I feel so thankful to Gran and Gramps for keeping it.

I have two particularly vivid memories from our camping trips.  The first was when a large black snake slithered across the grass close to the tents.  I was absolutely terrified and gramps, in a protective instinct, gave it a mighty wack on the head with a large stick.  It turned out in the end that it was a non poisonous mole snake.  When it was dead, I was able to hold it and I was absolutely fascinated by the way its scaly skin felt.

The second was my first ever fishing experience.  Dad patiently showed me how to create fishing knots and tie on hooks and sinkers.  Then he taught me how to cast and I practised over and over again on a long section of grass by the tents.  Finally it was time to try the real thing.  I was so excited.  We pumped prawns on a large mudflat close to the camp site - dad always maintained that live prawns made the best bait.  Then we went down to the lagoon mouth and dad taught me the grissly knack of threading the hook through the wriggling prawn.  I cast in and as if ordained, caught a feisty steenbras within 10 minutes!!  Talk about beginner's luck.  Excitement doesn't adequately describe how I felt.

Unfortunately it's been downhill since then.  I'm been fishing many times since then but I'm usually the last to catch a fish or the fish I do catch are laughingly tiny.  But nothing can take away the thrill of catching that first fish.














15 September 1970

Gratitude (Childhood years: 1970 - 1980)


My family

  • Having Jo in my life
  • Having parents who loved us
  • Having Gramps in my life to show me what extroversion and effusively expressing love felt like.
  • My beautiful relationship with all my Grandparents
  • Amazing food (mum, Granny and Gran all made delicious food)
  • The joy of Xmas and Mum's generosity


Other beings

  • The Cullys in our lives
  • Having dogs in our lives (starting my life-long love of animals)


Our home

  • The pool
  • Our large garden
  • Home in a peaceful, safe area
  • The park down the road
  • The Rondebosch field for walks


Life style

  • Growing up in the sunshine of Cape Town with the beaches and mountain
  • Our family holidays, especially Eight Bells


School

  • Monte vista (to build my confidence), then St Georges (a wonderful, private school with small classes)


Priceless moments

We do not remember days, we remember moments.  Cesare Pavese 

Life isn't a matter of milestones, but of moments. Rose Kennedy


Childhood

  • Stamp collecting
  • Family Xmas
  • New school term
  • Ceres holiday  


Travel

  • Fitzroy
  • Torres
  • Udaipur
  • Nepal
  • Galapagos
  • Tourleading
  • Uyuni in Bolivia
  • Iguasu Falls, Victoria Falls
  • Diving in Dahab (canyon & blue hole)
  • Great Ocean Road
  • Three Sisters, Hanging Rock
  • Cliffs of Moher
  • Table Mountain
  • Namib dunes & trees
  • Lake District
  • Northern Queensland
  • Iberia, Mindo, Pantanol
  • Amazon
  • Inca Trail and Macchu Picchu
  • Dangerous Road
  • Tasmania
  • Perth to Melbourne to Sydney to Brisbane


Tourleading 

  • Felucca
  • Mud at Saklikent gorge
  • Shona, Niki
  • Writing e-mail to Gramps
  • Oloudinez boat day


Manmade

  • The Opera House
  • Taj Mahal
  • Petra, Abu Simbel, Pyramids
  • Sydney skyline
  • Tomb of Queen Nefertiti
  • Tutankamin's treasures
  • Meteora monasteries
  • New computer
  • New computer in London
  • iPhone 4, iPhone 6
  • New Macbook Pro (x2)
  • Big screen
  • Music mini-disk player
  • Sony speakers


Spiritual

  • Istanbul bath-house
  • Swifts in India
  • Balcony Awakening
  • The presence of Love, especially to music
  • The peace from meditation
  • Being and mindfulness
  • Spiritual insights - who I really am and my purpose


Home life

  • Cambridge and Volvo life
  • Home renovating
  • Savouring my balcony
  • The Botanica
  • Walking with Mack
  • Week in Manly
  • Moving into Blues Point Road


Compass

  • Reflecting
  • Creating lasting transformation
  • Compiling and synthesising
  • Minimalism
  • Getting things done, productivity
  • Making a real difference to my life
  • Evernote


Love & Connection

  • Aimee discussions
  • Yogi discussions
  • Watching Mack walk


Passions

  • Wisdom Trove
  • Hiking
  • Photography
  • Editing photos and blogging
  • The peace from meditation
  • Walking with Mack
  • Being and mindfulness
  • Mack
  • Mindmapping
  • Tennis
  • Editing photos and blogging
  • Movies
  • Tennis


Birding

  • Rietvlei
  • Rondevlei
  • Bird park in India
  • Chitwan National Park
  • Pels ow
  • African Fish Eagle
  • Amazon parrots
  • Malachite kingfisher (mating!)
  • Condors
  • Bearded vultures in Nepal
  • Finfoot & kingfisher (Nature's Valley)
  • Hummingbirds in Mindo
  • Half a million Megellanic Penguins
  • Green Coucal, Mkuzi
  • Narina Trogan
  • Toucan
  • Fishing Eagle
  • Ground woodpecker
  • African Rail
  • Finfoot
  • Half collared kingfisher


Nature

  • Storm's River waves
  • Nature's Valley
  • Okovango, Chobe, Kruger, Ndumu, Umfolozi, Etosha
  • Tsitsikama Forest
  • Baobabs, Shannon Park blue gums
  • Stars on The Orange River


 Wildlife

  • Leopard in Kruger
  • Snorkeling with dolphins
  • Wild dolphins and a whale at Llandadno
  • Sea birds (including beautiful Inca terns) at the Ballestas Islands
  • Horses in the mist
  • David Attenborough nature DVD's
  • Millions of Soldier Crabs


Creating

  • Pompeii and Dido projects
  • Wisdom Trove
  • Reflections
  • My Compass (Paradise Island, South America, Waverton)
  • Volvo site + strategy documents + Denmark SPM map
  • Excel spreadsheet of memories
  • Blog (current, old memories, highlights) - Cambridge, South America
  • PSION quotes
  • New rep report
  • Siegelgale strategy docs
  • Computer program (game)
  • Ally board presentation
  • UCT mindmaps
  • Teaching (twists, business, white board, CELTA lessons)
  • Teaching scanned lessons
  • Gramps eulogy + Jo's wedding speech
  • Teacher's Wiki + class blog
  • Fabricmatcher brainstorming + spec


Books & Movies 

  • Gladiator
  • Schindler's List
  • James Bond
  • Indiana Jones
  • Lord of the Rings
  • Game of Thrones
  • Wilbur Smith
  • The Hobbit
  • Enid Blyton
  • 39 Steps
  • Sixth Sense
  • The Notebook


Ally

  • Ally
  • New Year's eve with Ally
  • Kirstenbosch picnic with Ally
  • Franschoek river (honeymoon)
  • Lake Palace
  • Celine Dion
  • Irish Castle nookie
  • Lcked


Big releases 

  • Spiritual releases
  • Many times (2013) - spiritual wonder and also sadness
  • Jo's card on my 40th
  • Schindler's List
  • Dances with Wolves
  • Awakenings
  • Dad in hotel room with Ally
  • Jenny Mallet at funeral


Photography

  • Antarctica & The Arctic
  • Kruger
  • Fitzroy, Kruger, Galapagos
  • Camera club presentation
  • Slide presentation on The Arctic
  • Photography South America
  • Getting new lenses (300mm, 500mm, 100 - 500mm, 14 - 300)


Memories - Cambridge 

  • Moving into apartment
  • Cambridge living (river, reserve, botanic garden)
  • Crepes and library
  • Blog, photos
  • Movies and IMDB
  • Mindmapping
  • W Australia
  • Punting
  • Diving in Egypt
  • Blogging
  • Tennis with Louis
  • Rollerblade Stanley Park
  • Prague
  • Canada
  • Colleges


Memories - London (Volvo) 

  • Volvo.com project
  • John Barleycorn ribs
  • Sleeping in Duxford
  • Train to Duxford with coffee on way
  • Brazil
  • Asheville
  • Volvo caffeteria
  • Volvo.com steering meetings (Bokenas , Rastaried )
  • Training in Gothenberg, Smaka
  • Excel memories
  • Tennis with Louis
  • Gym
  • Croatia
  • Prague


Memories - London 

  • Barbados
  • Nepal
  • Africa trip   (white-water, Malawi lake)
  • Rollerblading
  • Les Miserables
  • Touch rugby
  • Mini player
  • Les Miserables
  • Touch rugby
  • Mini player


Memories - 1997 travels 

  • Greece   (Olympus and Vicos Gorge)
  • Turkey (Olympos, Butterfly Valley, Oludinez, swim to island)
  • Egypt (Blue Hole, Felluca)
  • Petra
  • India - especially Udaipur and lunch at Lake Palace
  • Ireland
  • UK
  • Thailand
  • Compass, mantra, spirituality


Memories - Old Mutual 

  • Wedding - and Franschoek
  • Paradise Island
  • Meditation movement
  • Paddle skiing
  • Paintball, Lazerquest
  • Buckaneers Backpackers and Otter Trail
  • PSION - quotes (1996 travels), compass (Paradise Island), organising
  • Tennis with Russell
  • Fish River hike
  • Hiking Club weekends
  • Otter Trail with Rory
  • New Rep Project
  • Clifton that summer
  • Volleyball on Clifton
  • Willow Road braais
  • 1994 World Cup rugby
  • What the World Needs Now (Russell and Roger)
  • UK and Italy trip


Life Trove

  • Blogging in South America
  • Cambridge photos (the river, the colleges and punts)


Others

  • Caroline at Pink Palace
  • Nicky in Instanbul
  • Shona making move on me
  • Shona in Luxor
  • Penny & Sarah
  • Lizzy courtship
  • Dani, before The Opera House
  • Dani roadtrip

1 September 1970

Connection (Childhood years: 1970 - 1980)


Family and Friends

  • Mum and dad
  • Jo
  • Gran and Gramps
  • Granny and Grandpa
  • The Rusconi's
  • The Cully's
  • My remedial teacher, Mrs Robinson


Pets

  • Scamp
  • Tinkerbell
  • Tina
  • Cindy
  • Meg
  • The hamsters
  • The guineapigs


Toys

  • Wicky
  • Doggies
  • Lone Ranger & Tonto
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